Perspectives on Periods
There have been many discussions on the internet recently surrounding a campaign of Always pads entitled, "Have a Happy Period".
Right off the bat, what do these words mean to you?
Are you excited by the idea that your period could be a happier thing? Are you mad that someone is telling you to have a happy period when it couldn't possibly be happy, what with cramps and irritability and all? Are you suspect of a marketing campaign? Are you inspired by a forward thinking corporation? Are you indifferent? - gosh I hope not!
Well, many women are pretty upset with this campaign. Apparently, Always prints this slogan on the plastic wrapping of their pads so women can read the words as they change their pads. Women are appalled at the gall of a company that tries to say that a woman's period could be a happy thing. There is even a letter circulating among blogs that a woman apparently wrote to the company in disgust over the slogan.
Something we like about GladRags is that they not only help the environment, are great for women's health and save women money, but they also often help to improve a woman's perspective on her period. The comfort of an all-cotton pad and the act of washing and caring for GladRags put women more in touch with their bodies in a healthy way. We have written in the past about PMS and how we regret how it always has to be such a stigmatized thing - women are overly emotional and unreasonable during these days and therefore crazy. We simply do not agree with that. We have talked about how menstruation does not have to be a curse. It can be a time for quiet, for reflection, a time to appreciate the gifts of menstruation. In essence, we too at GladRags hope all women are able to have a happy period.
It is a shame that many women cannot take this approach to their period, but I think that many of these women are taking issue with Always because they don't feel like Always really understands them. The company is simplifying what a woman experiences during her days of menstruating into urges for chocolate, being angry at anyone she comes into contact with, and feeling ugly. They're riding all of the cliches, embracing them really, instead of reinventing them.
In order for women to be lead into a better perspective on their periods, I say, let's reinvent! I used to be frustrated at how reflective I was and emotional during my PMS days. Now, I appreciate the insights that I come to when I am literally forced into reflection by my body. I take time out to absorb those insights and perhaps to make changes in my life based off of my new information.
Menstruation is a powerful and nuanced experience. I hope that more and more women are able to understand and respect that rather than resent it. And I hope that a marketing campaign doesn't push women who could benefit from a reinvention into resenting their periods even more.